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HTML
<ul>
<li data-nodeid="1">
<div><a href="#child1">child1</a></div>
</li>
<li data-nodeid="2">
<div><a href="#child2">child2</a></div>
</li>
</ul>
<div id="result"></div>
JavaScript
var nodeValue = $('a[href="#child1"]').parents("li").attr("data-nodeid");
document.getElementById('result').innerHTML = nodeValue;