not nth child
HTML
<div class="myclass">
<div>1st</div>
<div>2nd</div>
<div>3rd</div>
</div>
CSS
div > div:not(:nth-child(2)) {
background: red;
}
<div class="myclass">
<div>1st</div>
<div>2nd</div>
<div>3rd</div>
</div>
div > div:not(:nth-child(2)) {
background: red;
}