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HTML
<select>
<option disable hidden value="">CHOOSE</option>
<option>#1</option>
<option>#2</option>
<option>#3</option>
<option>#4</option>
</select>
CSS
select{
color:#aaa;
}
option:not(first-child) {
color: #000;
}
JavaScript
$(document).ready(function(){
$("select").change(function(){
if ($(this).val()=="") $(this).css({color: "#aaa"});
else $(this).css({color: "#000"});
});
});