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HTML

<select id="select1">
<option value="0">Choose</option>
<option value="1">1</option>
<option value="2">2</option>
<option value="3">3</option>
<option value="4">4</option>
</select>

<select id="select2">
<option value="0">Choose</option>
<option value="1">1</option>
<option value="2">2</option>
<option value="3">3</option>
<option value="4">4</option>
</select>

<select id="select3">
<option value="0">Choose</option>
<option value="1">1</option>
<option value="2">2</option>
<option value="3">3</option>
<option value="4">4</option>
</select>

JavaScript

$( document ).ready(function() {
  $('#select1').change(function() {
  	var selected_index = $(this).prop('selectedIndex');
    $('#select2 option:eq('+selected_index+'), #select3 option:eq('+selected_index+')').hide();
	});
});