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HTML

<input type="radio" name="gender" value="m" /><label>Male</label>
<input type="radio" name="gender" value="f" /><label>Female</label>
<br />
<select id="mOptions" disabled="true">
    <option>Select</option>
    <option value="1">Shirt</option>
    <option value="2">Pant</option>
    <option value="3">dhoti</option>
</select>

<select id="fOptions" disabled="true">
    <option>Select</option>
    <option value="4">Saree</option>
    <option value="5">Bangle</option>
    <option value="6">handbag</option>
</select>

JavaScript

$(document).ready(function() {
    $('input[name="gender"]').click(function() {
       if ($('input[name="gender"]').is(':checked')) { 
           var radioValue = $("input[name='gender']:checked").val();
           
           if (radioValue == "m") {
               $( "#mOptions" ).css('color', '#0f0');
               $( "#fOptions" ).css('color', '#fff');
               $( "#mOptions" ).prop( "disabled", false );
               $( "#fOptions" ).prop( "disabled", true );
           } else {
               $( "#mOptions" ).css('background-color', '#fff');
               $( "#fOptions" ).css('background-color', '#0f0');
               $( "#mOptions" ).prop( "disabled", true );
               $( "#fOptions" ).prop( "disabled", false );
           }
       }
    });
});