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HTML

<select name="teste" id="teste">
  <option value="0">NĂŁo iniciado</option>
  <option value="1">Em andamento</option>
  <option value="2">Finalizado</option>
</select>

JavaScript

$('select').change(function() {
	var selecionado = $('option:selected', this);
  var option = $('option');
  
  if ( selecionado.val() == 1 ) {
  	option.prev().prev().prop('disabled',true);
  } else if ( selecionado.val() == 2 ) {
  	option.prev().prop('disabled',true);
  }
});