JSFiddle - React, Tailwind, and code Playground
by alsjka
HTML
<table border="2" width="200" id="tab">
<tr>
<th></th>
<th>tblh1</th>
<th>tblh21</th>
<th>tblh3</th>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>tblh1</td>
<td>3</td>
<td>5</td>
<td>5</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td><span>tblh2</span></td>
<td>4</td>
<td>6</td>
<td>2</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>tblh3</td>
<td>5</td>
<td>2</td>
<td>4</td>
</tr>
</table>
CSS
.highlight {
background: green;
}
JavaScript
var row = $("#tab").find("th:contains('tblh21')").closest('th').index();
var col = $("#tab").find("td:contains('tblh3')").closest('tr').index();
$('table tr:eq(' + row + ') td:eq(' + col + ')').addClass('highlight');