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HTML
<div class="form-item-from">
<label for="form-item-from">From </label>
<select class="form-select" id="form-item-from"><option value="1">1</option><option value="2">2</option><option value="3">3</option></select>
</div>
<div class="form-item-to">
<label for="form-item-to">From </label>
<select class="form-select" id="form-item-to"><option value="A">A</option><option value="B">B</option><option value="C">C</option></select>
</div>
<a id="SwapButton" href="">Swap values</a>
JavaScript
$("#SwapButton").click(function(e) {
e.preventDefault();
//Get the values
var fromVal = $("#form-item-from option:selected").val();
var fromText = $("#form-item-from option:selected").text();
var toVal = $("#form-item-to option:selected").val();
var toText = $("#form-item-to option:selected").text();
//Set the values
$("#form-item-from option:selected").val(toVal);
$("#form-item-from option:selected").text(toText);
$("#form-item-to option:selected").val(fromVal);
$("#form-item-to option:selected").text(fromText);
});