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HTML
<select>
<option>hey1</option>
<option>hey2</option>
<option>hey3</option>
<option>hey4</option>
<option>hey5</option>
</select>
JavaScript
$('select').one('mousedown',function(){
$("option").attr("disabled", true);
<!-- $("option:first",this).remove(); -->
});