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HTML

<label><input type="radio" name="gender" value="m" />Male</label>
<label><input type="radio" name="gender" value="f" />Female</label>
<br />
<select id="mOptions" disabled="true">
    <option>Select</option>
    <option value="1">Shirt</option>
    <option value="2">Pant</option>
    <option value="3">dhoti</option>
</select>

<select id="fOptions" disabled="true">
    <option>Select</option>
    <option value="4">Saree</option>
    <option value="5">Bangle</option>
    <option value="6">handbag</option>
</select>

JavaScript

$('input[name="gender"]').click(function() {
  if($('input[name="gender"]').is(':checked')) { 
    var radioValue = $("input[name='gender']:checked").val();
    if(radioValue == "m"){
      $( "#mOptions" ).prop( "disabled", false ).css('background-color', 'lightgreen');
      $( "#fOptions" ).prop( "disabled", true  ).css('background-color', '').val('Select');
    } else {
      $( "#mOptions" ).prop( "disabled", true  ).css('background-color', '').val('Select');
      $( "#fOptions" ).prop( "disabled", false ).css('background-color', 'lightgreen');;
    }
  }
});