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HTML

<select name="selectBox1" id="selectBox1">
   <option value="option1">option1</option>
   <option value="option2">option2</option>
   <option value="option3">option3</option>
   <option value="option4">option4</option> 
</select>

<select name="selectBox2" id="selectBox2">
    <option value="option1">option1</option>
    <option value="option2">option2</option>
    <option value="option3">option3</option>
    <option value="option4">option4</option>    
</select>

<select name="selectBox3" id="selectBox3">
    <option value="option1">option1</option>
    <option value="option2">option2</option>
    <option value="option3">option3</option>
    <option value="option4">option4</option>    
</select>

JavaScript

$('select').on('change',function(){
    var value=$(this).val();
    $('select').not(this).each(function(){
        $(this).find('option[value='+value+']').remove();
    });
});