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HTML
<li>
<input id="mem3" value="TestU4" disabled="">
<button id="del3" class="delmem" onclick="deleteBandMember(this);">remove</button>
</li>
JavaScript
function deleteBandMember(elem){
var mmbr = $(elem).prev("input").val();
alert(mmbr)
}