JSFiddle - React, Tailwind, and code Playground
HTML
<ul>
<li> hi </li>
<li> hoi </li>
<li> privyet </li>
<li class="selected"> bonjour </li>
<li> hallo </li>
</ul>
JavaScript
var elem = $('ul li.selected');
var index = $("ul li").index(elem);
var index2 = $("ul li.selected").index("ul li");
var index3 = $("ul li.selected").index();
alert( index + " " + index2 + " " + index3 );