SO fiddle
Test Fiddle mainly for SO Questions
by Nick Craver
HTML
<link rel="stylesheet" href="http://ajax.googleapis.com/ajax/libs/jqueryui/1.8.4/themes/overcast/jquery-ui.css">
<div id="menu">
<dl>
<dt id="dont_select1"><a href="#">don't 1</a></dt>
</dl>
<dl>
<dt id="dont_select2"><a href="#">don't 2</a></dt>
</dl>
<dl>
<dt id="dont_select3"><a href="#">don't 3</a></dt>
</dl>
<dl>
<dt id="select_me1"><a>select me 1</a></dt>
<dd id="community-sub">
<ul>
<li><a href="#">Sub 1</a></li>
<li><a href="#">Sub 2</a></li>
<li><a href="#">Sub 3</a></li>
</ul>
</dd>
</dl>
<dl>
<dt id="select_me2"><a>select me 2</a></dt>
<dd id="state-sub">
<ul>
<li><a href="#">Sub 4</a></li>
<li><a href="#">Sub 5</a></li>
<li><a href="#">Sub 6</a></li>
</ul>
</dd>
</dl>
</div>
<div id="other">
<dl>
<dt id="else1"><a href="#">else 1</a></dt>
</dl>
<dl>
<dt id="else2-main"><a>else 2</a></dt>
<dd id="else2-sub">
<ul>
<li><a href="#">Sub 1</a></li>
<li><a href="#">Sub 2</a></li>
</ul>
</dd>
</dl>
</div>
JavaScript
$("#menu dd").prev("dt").css('color', 'red');