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HTML
<select id="select1" >
<option value="apple" selected>Яблоко</option>
<option value="pear" >Груша</option>
</select>
<select id="select2">
<option value="apple" >Яблоко</option>
<option value="pear" selected>Груша</option>
</select>
JavaScript
var firstSelect = document.getElementById("select1"),
secondSelect = document.getElementById("select2");
secondSelect.onchange = function(event) {
if (this.value === "apple") {
firstSelect.value = "pear";
}
}