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HTML
<li data-active="true">item 1</li>
<li data-active="false">item 2</li>
<li data-active="false">item 3</li>
JavaScript
console.log($($('li')[1]).data('active'));
$($('li')[1]).data('active', true);
console.log($($('li')[1]).data('active'));