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HTML

<select>
    <option value="1">1</option>
    <option value="2">2</option>
    <option value="3">3</option>
</select>

<select>
    <option value="1">1</option>
    <option value="2">2</option>
    <option value="3">3</option>
</select>

<select>
    <option value="1">1</option>
    <option value="2">2</option>
    <option value="3">3</option>
</select>

<select>
    <option value="1">1</option>
    <option value="2">2</option>
    <option value="3">3</option>
</select>

<select>
    <option value="1">1</option>
    <option value="2">2</option>
    <option value="3">3</option>
</select>

JavaScript

$("select").on("change", removeOptions);

function removeOptions() {
    var val = $(this).val();
    $("select").not(this).find("option[value='" + val + "']").remove();
}