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HTML

<select id="1">
  <option value="volvo">Volvo</option>
  <option value="saab">Saab</option>
  <option value="mercedes">Mercedes</option>
</select>

<select id="2">
  <option value="volvo">Volvo</option>
  <option value="saab">Saab</option>
  <option value="mercedes">Mercedes</option>
</select>

JavaScript

$(document).ready(function() {
    $('select').change(function() {
        $('option[value=' + $(this).val() + ']').attr('disabled', 'disabled');
    });
});