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HTML

<table class="one" border="2">
<tr>
<th>th</th>
<th>th</th>
<th>th</th>
<th>th</th>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>td</td>
<td>нет</td>
<td>td</td>
<td>td</td>
</tr>
<tr>
<td>td</td>
<td>нет</td>
<td>td</td>
<td>td</td>
</tr>
</table>

CSS

th {width: 100px; background: #DDD; font-weight: bold;}

JavaScript

var deleteRow = function(selector, contains) {
    var table = $(selector),
        rowIndex = null;
    var _TD = table.find('td:contains("' + contains + '"),th:contains("' + contains + '")');
    if (_TD.length > 0) {
        var cI = _TD[0].cellIndex + 1;
        $(selector+' td:nth-child('+cI+'),th:nth-child('+cI+')').remove();
    }
};


deleteRow('.one', 'нет');