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HTML
<select id="my_select">
<option value="a">a</option>
<option value="b" selected="selected">b</option>
<option value="c">c</option>
</select>
<div id="reset">reset</div>
JavaScript
var preval = $('#my_select').val();
$("#reset").on("click", function () {
$('#my_select option[value*="' + preval + '"]').prop('selected', true);
});