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HTML
<select multiple>
<option>option 1</option>
<option>option 2</option>
<option>option 3</option>
<option>option 4</option>
<option>option 5</option>
</select>
JavaScript
var myOption = "<option>Dynamic Option</option>";
var index = 2;
$(myOption).insertBefore("select option:nth-child("+index+")");