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HTML
<select size="1" name="m" id="m">
<option selected value="1">apple</option>
<option value="2">ball</option>
<option value="3">cat</option>
<option value="4">dog</option>
<option value="5">egg</option>
</select>
<select size="1" name="a" id="a">
<option selected value="1">aaa</option>
<option value="2">bbb</option>
<option value="3">ccc</option>
</select>
JavaScript
var _selected = $('#m').val();
$('#m').change(function() {
var answer = confirm("this will change your selection.");
if (answer) { // ie, if i click 'OK'
_selected = $(this).val();
$('#a').val(_selected);
} else {
$(this).val(_selected);
}
});