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HTML

<table id="foo" border="1px">
    <tr>
        <td rowspan="2">one</td>
        <td>two</td>
        <td rowspan="2">three</td>
        <td>four</td>
        <td rowspan="2">five</td>
    </tr>
    <tr>
        <td rowspan="2">two</td>
        <td>four</td>
    </tr>
    <tr>
        <td rowspan="2">one</td>
        <td>three</td>
        <td>four</td>
        <td>five</td>
    </tr>
    <tr>
        <td>two</td>
        <td>three</td>
        <td>four</td>
        <td>five</td>
    </tr>
</table>

JavaScript

$(function() {
    var colToGet = 2;

    var offsets = [];
    var skips = [];

    function incrementOffset(index) {
        if (offsets[index]) {
            offsets[index]++;
        } else {
            offsets[index] = 1;
        }
    }

    function getOffset(index) {
        return offsets[index] || 0;
    }

    $("#foo > tbody > tr").each(function(rowIndex) {

        var thisOffset = getOffset(rowIndex);

        $(this).children().each(function(tdIndex) {

            var rowspan = $(this).attr("rowspan");

            if (tdIndex + thisOffset >= colToGet) {
                if(skips[rowIndex]) return false;
                
                $(this).css("background-color", "red");

                if (rowspan > 1) {
                    for (var i = 1; i < rowspan; i++) {
                        skips[rowIndex + i] = true;
                    }
                }

                return false;
            }

            if (rowspan > 1) {
                for (var i = 1; i < rowspan; i++) {
                    incrementOffset(rowIndex + i);
                }
            }
        });
    });
});