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HTML

<select name="column_select" id="column_select">
    <option value="col1">1 column</option>
    <option value="col2">2 column</option>
    <option value="col3">3 column</option>
</select>

<select name="layout_select" id="layout_select">
    <!--Below shows when '1 column' is selected is hidden otherwise-->
    <option value="col1">none</option>
    
    <!--Below shows when '2 column' is selected is hidden otherwise-->
    <option value="col2_ms">layout 1</option> 
    <option value="col2_sm">layout 2</option>
    
    <!--Below shows when '3 column' is selected is hidden otherwise-->
    <option value="col3_mss">layout 3</option>
    <option value="col3_ssm">layout 4</option>
    <option value="col3_sms">layout 5</option>
</select>

JavaScript

$(document).ready(function() {
    var optarray = $("#layout_select").children('option').map(function() {
        return {
            "value": this.value,
            "option": "<option value='" + this.value + "'>" + this.text + "</option>"
        }
    })
        
    $("#column_select").change(function() {
        $("#layout_select").children('option').remove();
        var addoptarr = [];
        for (i = 0; i < optarray.length; i++) {
            if (optarray[i].value.indexOf($(this).val()) > -1) {
                addoptarr.push(optarray[i].option);
            }
        }
        $("#layout_select").html(addoptarr.join(''))
    }).change();
})