JSFiddle - React, Tailwind, and code Playground
HTML
<div id="elem" data-k1="hello"></div>
JavaScript
var elem = $( "#elem" );
console.log( "k1 pre: " + elem[0].dataset.k1 );
elem.attr( "data-k1", "changed" );
console.log( "k1 post: " + elem[0].dataset.k1 );
elem.attr( "data-k2", "set" );
console.log( "k2: " + elem[0].dataset.k2 );