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HTML
<select id="chooser-1">
<option value="1">foo</option>
<option value="2" class="x">bar</option>
<option value="3" class="y">baz</option>
</select>
<select id="chooser-2">
<option value="1">foo</option>
<option value="2" class="x">bar</option>
<option value="3" class="y">baz</option>
</select>
JavaScript
$(function() {
$("#chooser-1 .x").attr("selected", "selected");
$("#chooser-1 .y").removeAttr("selected");
$("#chooser-2 .x").attr("selected", "selected");
});