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HTML
<select>
<option>1</option>
<option>2</option>
<option>3</option>
<option>4</option>
<option>5</option>
</select>
<a class="link" href="#">link</a>
JavaScript
$('.link').click(function() {
$('select>option:eq(3)').attr('selected', true);
});