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HTML
<select id="s1">
<option value="1">1</option>
<option value="2">2</option>
<option value="3">3</option>
</select>
JavaScript
$('#s1 option[value=1]').hide();
$('#s1 option[value=2]').hide();
$('#s1 option:visible').first().attr('selected', 'selected');