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HTML
<select>
<option value="a">a</option>
<option value="b" selected="selected">B</option>
<option value="c">C</option>
<option value="d">d</option>
<option value="e">e</option>
<option value="f">f</option>
<option value="g">g</option>
</select>
<button id="btn">Click me</button>
JavaScript
$('#btn').click(function(){
alert($('select option:selected').text());
$('select>option:selected').removeAttr('selected');
$('select>option:nth-child(4)').attr('selected', true);
alert($('select option:selected').text());
});