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HTML

<select>
    <option class="aaa" value="aaa">aaa</option>
    <option class="bbb" value="bbb">bbb</option>
    <option class="ccc" value="ccc">ccc</option>
    <option class="ddd" value="ddd">ddd</option>
</select>
<div class="field">
    <div>aaa</div>
    <div>ccc</div>
</div>

JavaScript

$('div').not('.field').each(function () {
    var txt = $(this).text();
console.log(txt);
    $('option[value=' + txt + ']').prop('disabled',true);
});